What does it take to hate someone you don’t know? What does it take to dismiss someone you don’t know as unimportant or unacceptable? What does it take to merely underestimate them?
Racism and sexism are the two major instances of this in this country. But “we” also hate, dismiss, and/or underestimate people for their religion, for their political affiliations, for their country of origin, or even for their sports team. “We” hate, dismiss, and/or underestimate people for their abilities and their impairments.
Why? What does that prejudice get “us?” There’s got to be some sort of motivation, doesn’t there? To continue holding onto a prejudice, you either have to be exposed exclusively to examples that fit your expectations or you have to resist being corrected by your own experience, by the logic and experiences shared by others, and by a lot of other information that is available in order to hold onto something that makes no sense.
People hurt others through prejudice and acts of prejudice, through bullying and teasing, through abuse and neglect. The only connection I can find is an under-appreciation of life—particularly other people’s lives—and an over-emphasis on self.
What is this but a lack of empathy? Yet, it’s perfectly “normal,” so normal it’s rampant in our society and in many others. Is this what people strive for when they try to make their children “normal?” Why?