I am still in the midst of illness and hardship, but recently there was a bright spot in this time of tribulation. Alex had a very good day on Wednesday. It started with a check-up with his pediatrician. For the first time, Alex sat still while the nurse took his blood pressure and his pulse. When the doctor came in, Alex let him look in his ears and his mouth without any problems and without requiring any special maneuvers on the part of his doctor. Then, when the nurse came in to give Alex his vaccinations, Alex only needed help staying still enough for the needle. He endured not one but three shots without any kind of fuss.
After such excellent behavior, Mark and I wanted to give Alex a treat. We discussed the possibilities and decided to take Alex to IHOP, because there are three different meals he likes there and the menu is one he can consistently use to make his own choices. He chose a grilled cheese sandwich, and I requested fries instead of fruit. Alex ate his entire sandwich and all his fries!
After that, he had some free time at home before I took him to the speech clinic. When we got there, the speech therapist had a new selection of toys so they could explore different areas of the device. Alex was surprisingly cooperative and attentive. He didn’t lose focus until the very end and he used the device beautifully.
When we returned home, he continued his fabulous day without any significantly disruptive behaviors. (We have also heard that Alex is now proactively extending his hand in greeting and, at home, he’s watching Willy and his friend play together as if he’s trying to figure out how they do it.) While this stellar behavior didn’t roll over into Thursday, I did get another, stronger dose of antibiotics. Unfortunately, my mother required a trip to Urgent Care and was diagnosed with vertigo, which took up all my energy for the day.